Choosing an Anger Management specialist or Counsellor
Working with a Counsellor, Psychotherapist or Anger Management Specialist could be one of the most important decisions you make in your life!
It sounds dramatic, but it is nonetheless true.
A therapist can help you change your life for the better. They can help you save your marriage or relationship. Overcome an Anger issue that is destroying your relationship, work and opportunities. Overcome Anxiety, Stress or Depression that is damaging and limiting all aspects of your life. They can help you in so many ways or THEY CAN WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS TIME AND RESOURCES.
Wasting time and effort could cause you to miss the only opportunity you have to save your relationship or marriage. It could cause you to miss that once-in-a-lifetime career or business opportunity. It could allow a salvageable situation to turn into a disaster. Time is often of the essence. Or a lack of skill, understanding, or ability could ruin things.
Choose the people you allow into your life carefully. And that is doubly true for therapists. A great therapist could be a boon to your life and help you improve everything and realise your potential. Conversely, a bad therapist can make things worse.
As with all professions, there is the good, the bad and the outright disastrous.
Do not leave it to Chance
It is sheare folly to leave such an important choice to chance.
Other than those people who have a Couple’s Counsellor, Anger Management Specialist, Counsellor or Psychotherapist recommended to them, people’s choice seems to be random. Or to be more accurate, most do not choose. If you have not seen a therapist before, how can you choose? And even if you have had a therapist before, How do you know that they were the best choice or even a good choice? You might think they were. But how do you know? Were they competent? Were they a good use of your precious time and resources? Did they actually help you or did they just help you ‘feel better’ temporarily?
One types into Google or another search engine “Counsellor”, “Anger Management”, “Couple Counsellor”, “Anxiety”, “Stress Management”, “Depression” or whatever keyword Along with one’s location or On-Line and then start going through the results.
Generally, people start phoning or sending messages or emails,
Do not pick the first Anger management, Couple’s Counsellor, or Stress, Anxiety, and Depression specialist, Counsellor or Psychotherapist to answer the phone, or return a message or email.
When your or your family’s health is in the balance. When your relationship is on the line. When your life is in turmoil. When you are fighting to see your children. And time is of the essence. When you need effective, time-sensitive, competent and skilled assistance. Do not waste your time and resources by making a bad ill-informed choice.
How to Choose a Counsellor or Anger Management Specialist
Beware the naked man who offers you his shirt – As with all professions, there are the good, the bad and the incompetent, and therapists are no different. Not all therapists are created equally. They vary in skill, competence, experience, dedication and much more besides. Often you will find couple counsellors trying to help couples when they themselves do not have the ability to create and maintain a healthy functional relationship for themselves. Others claim to be able to help people with Anxiety, Depression, Anger Management issues, Addictions, Control issues, Narcissism, and other mental health and relational health issues whilst suffering from the very same issues themselves. One need only ask oneself a simple question: ‘If this person cannot help themselves, how can they help me?’ Most common mental health issues including Anger, Anxiety, and Depression are in fact readily resolvable without the need to resort to medication or tools… Both of which do not stand the test of time. A skilled therapist should be able to outline and explain the treatment plan or the process by which they will help you. If they cannot, then they know not.
